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Jul 23, 2006 13:37:58 GMT -5
Post by Britney on Jul 23, 2006 13:37:58 GMT -5
Do you have any secrets which you will take to your grave, or is everything in your mind fair topic for discussion with atleast somebody? If the former, do you feel bad about not being able to disclose or talk about your secrets with others, or do you derive a feeling of safety or even self-importance from maintaining such secrets?
... asking this because up until this point I've always been open about everything to people I trust, and I'm beginning to learn that some things may be better off left unspoken...
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Muad'dib
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Kwizatz Haderach
There exists no separation between gods and men; one blends softly casual into the other.
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Jul 23, 2006 13:40:02 GMT -5
Post by Muad'dib on Jul 23, 2006 13:40:02 GMT -5
I'm really secretive.
The less someone knows about you, the less they know they can misinterpret or misunderstand.
To avoid complications, the less they know the better it is.
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Jul 23, 2006 13:40:29 GMT -5
Post by Hunessai on Jul 23, 2006 13:40:29 GMT -5
I have some secrets I hold back from those I know in real life, but I have been more open with friends I have only known from the internet.
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Muad'dib
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Jul 23, 2006 13:42:19 GMT -5
Post by Muad'dib on Jul 23, 2006 13:42:19 GMT -5
Same with me, Hunessai.
At first thought its kind of a "Well, i'll never meet anyone here so its easy to sever contact."
But reality must be different, as severing contact has never been much a problem for me.
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Jul 23, 2006 13:43:03 GMT -5
Post by Osama Bin Laden on Jul 23, 2006 13:43:03 GMT -5
I have a few secrets, mainly from my parents, the selling drugs thing, but I can talk about that with friends. Not much well go to my grave with me. You should be able to talk to people you trust about your secret's without worrying about being betrayed, or judged. If you can't, then you dont realy trust them, and if they judge/betray you, then thats another hole to cut out of your life.
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Muad'dib
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Jul 23, 2006 13:45:34 GMT -5
Post by Muad'dib on Jul 23, 2006 13:45:34 GMT -5
Exactly, devil, which is why I tend to avoid a lot of people.
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pilaf
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Jul 23, 2006 13:52:56 GMT -5
Post by pilaf on Jul 23, 2006 13:52:56 GMT -5
Do I have any secrets?
Can't say. It's a secret.
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Jul 23, 2006 13:59:27 GMT -5
Post by comike14 on Jul 23, 2006 13:59:27 GMT -5
I've one secret I will die with. Everything else is on a need-to-know basis.
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Jul 23, 2006 14:26:26 GMT -5
Post by morty14 on Jul 23, 2006 14:26:26 GMT -5
The latter. There will be someone I can tell. I just might not ever meet this person.
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Jul 23, 2006 14:28:57 GMT -5
Post by Justice on Jul 23, 2006 14:28:57 GMT -5
I have one sercret I have only told one person and will probably take it to my grave.
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iGuess
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Jul 23, 2006 15:16:51 GMT -5
Post by iGuess on Jul 23, 2006 15:16:51 GMT -5
I have so many deep secrets that I have trouble keeping track of them. If someone asked me to tell them all of my deepest, darkest secrets, I would need a week or so to remember the whole list. And then once I had made the list I would not tell them, because I will take them to my grave.
edit: Or I'd kill them and add one more to the list.
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Gold_skywalker
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Jul 23, 2006 15:42:35 GMT -5
Post by Gold_skywalker on Jul 23, 2006 15:42:35 GMT -5
Do you have any secrets which you will take to your grave, or is everything in your mind fair topic for discussion with atleast somebody? If the former, do you feel bad about not being able to disclose or talk about your secrets with others, or do you derive a feeling of safety or even self-importance from maintaining such secrets? ... asking this because up until this point I've always been open about everything to people I trust, and I'm beginning to learn that some things may be better off left unspoken... Hell yes. And no, I'm not letting you in on them. Off-Topic: iGuess, that sig is the best, EVAR. Zidane Super-Power-Head-Butt ftw.
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Jul 23, 2006 17:11:30 GMT -5
Post by Slipper Eater on Jul 23, 2006 17:11:30 GMT -5
90% of me is a secret, and 80% of that is stuff you can know once I trust you completely, or when you need to know it. 5% of me is stuff I just won't tell anyone unless it's more than need to know, and the rest goes with me to my grave. I'm candid on the surface, but I'm a secretive little thing.
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Jul 23, 2006 19:24:42 GMT -5
Post by eek on Jul 23, 2006 19:24:42 GMT -5
I rarely tell unless I'm asked. And even then most of the time you'll get the minimum unless I know I can trust you. And I don't trust most of my family and friends for starters.
In general, I'm extremely secretive. There's a couple of things I won't be telling as long as I live.
edit: any particular reason this ain't in General, britney?
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Jul 23, 2006 19:27:35 GMT -5
Post by Osama Bin Laden on Jul 23, 2006 19:27:35 GMT -5
I rarely tell unless I'm asked. And even then most of the time you'll get the minimum unless I know I can trust you. And I don't trust most of my family and friends for starters. In general, I'm extremely secretive. There's a couple of things I won't be telling as long as I live. edit: any particular reason this ain't in General, britney? Dont you know? They nly post in the Debate Guild!
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Jul 23, 2006 19:30:26 GMT -5
Post by eek on Jul 23, 2006 19:30:26 GMT -5
I've seen her post in General once or twice before.
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Jul 23, 2006 20:14:57 GMT -5
Post by lucia on Jul 23, 2006 20:14:57 GMT -5
To people I'm close to in real life, I usually don't talk about what I'm feeling, or if I'm having trouble with my family. The whole suicide/depression/ADD diagnosis isn't something I told to anyone, but for some reason it's easier online.
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