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Post by Britney on Sept 11, 2006 21:07:40 GMT -5
... to make it so that you'd never talk to them again?
Would they have to die? Or could someone piss you off so much that you never want to have anything to do with them again? Would they have to cause you serious harm, or could it be something as harmless as an injurious thought? Does it depend on the person and the nature of their relationship to you? Does it depend on what kind of mood you are in at the time?
Would you ever tell someone to get out of your life, and if so, how severe would their infraction need to be?
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Post by Hunessai on Sept 11, 2006 21:48:21 GMT -5
I've never been able to not talk to people by way of will alone. I suppose they'd have to die or move away, and in the latter's case, I'd have to not like them.
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Post by Slipper Eater on Sept 12, 2006 4:40:52 GMT -5
Easy, break my trust. It seems stupid, but I don't really give second chances, you break it and you're never going to get it back unless you're important to me. This counts for 2 or 3 people.
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Post by Ratwar on Sept 12, 2006 8:34:24 GMT -5
Well, the only way someone could make it so that I would never talk to them is if they avoided me after an argument. I'm a very forgiving guy, and I do apologize when I see myself as being wrong, but I make a point of not apologizing when it isn't my fault. If someone has a problem with me, they need to come to see me, I'm not going to go to them and baby 'em.
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Post by milanius on Sept 12, 2006 10:35:16 GMT -5
It's easy.
Someone has to betray me, BIGTIME. Betray my trust, stab me in the back, make me mentally hurt... that would constitute tremendous aggrivation and would probably make me alienate myself from that so-called 'friend'.
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Post by lucia on Sept 12, 2006 16:24:14 GMT -5
I talk to people no matter what... I might still be angry inside, but I'd rather not make anyone else feel bad about anything.
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Post by lulu on Sept 13, 2006 9:59:34 GMT -5
Threaten them.  |
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Post by eek on Sept 13, 2006 10:13:40 GMT -5
It's easy. Someone has to betray me, BIGTIME. Betray my trust, stab me in the back, make me mentally hurt... that would constitute tremendous aggrivation and would probably make me alienate myself from that so-called 'friend'. Ditto. |
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Post by Daemon Sophic on Sept 14, 2006 15:53:01 GMT -5
 My words exactly.
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Post by melchior1 on Sept 14, 2006 17:07:06 GMT -5
It's easy. Someone has to betray me, BIGTIME. Betray my trust, stab me in the back, make me mentally hurt... that would constitute tremendous aggrivation and would probably make me alienate myself from that so-called 'friend'. Ditto. ditto (has actually happened to me, twice......both were female, DISCLAIMER: not being sexist) |
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Post by Leviticus on Sept 14, 2006 17:39:46 GMT -5
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
So I guess when I become ashamed of myself, then I shalt not speak to thou anymore.
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Post by Gold_skywalker on Sept 14, 2006 17:50:56 GMT -5
Me? Iunno.
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Post by Britney on Sept 14, 2006 18:46:30 GMT -5
I told an ex to die and didn't speak to him for a full year.
But I think its a sign of weakness to cut others out of your life. You should be able to keep everyone at whatever distance from yourself you prefer, without having to kill them off. You never know when you might end up in a future situation where you need their help...
There's always a time I'd like to kill anyone off, yet its always an emotional desire, since the rational thing to do is to always keep on good terms with people.
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Post by Muad'dib on Sept 14, 2006 19:04:26 GMT -5
I disagree.
Leaving aside a convoluted explanation of the logic I go through in my thinking... Hell, I don't even think I could explain it if I tried.
I know that it is very necessary for ties to be severed with people in life. Yeah, you don't make a big deal out of it. You don't say to someone "ties severed." You just take steps to avoid situations where they are around you any more.
And if you happen to run into them, hell, you're too busy to stop and chat you have to be somewhere else.
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Post by Slipper Eater on Sept 15, 2006 4:08:17 GMT -5
I think it's a sign of strength to cut people out of your life at times - sometimes you know if you start talking to them, they'll  you over again. Some people need to be cut out just so they don't grab an oppurtunity to pull you apart again. If it IS a childish grudge, then yes it is weak. |
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